A story that will never end...

Ghadi and his cars is an endless story, a post that will keep repeating year after year! :)

I love the fact that he loves playing with his cars.

it's stimulating and way better then watching TV or jumping on my bed...

but the amazing fact is what i discovered lately,

the fact that he has a very precise memory about every car, its color, model,

so if u closed his eyes and took away one of these, 

in one look, he'll tell you which one is missing!

I think this is normal for his age...

and I think it's awesome!

ready for the Grand Prix!

Three in a Bubble!

About how to please kids and Bad Decisions

Sometimes we tend to please our kids

We THINK we are doing the thing they mostly like

We ASSUME it IS what they will enjoy…

Well, sometimes we think wrong…

During my parenting years, it has happened several times

and too bad it is still happening

(hope this will stop someday and I will become emotionally smart enough to undertsand their needs and what would REALLY make their day)

The origin of this post is what has happened yesterday.

It was holiday, we were at home, ghadi playing with his cars…

After lunch, I insisted that i want to take him to a nearby mall where they were displaying real sizs Flash-Macqueen

Yes, the real car coming all the way from disney (that was was written in the Ad)

I KNEW he’ll be thrilled.

And above that, I convinced our neighbors to come with us so the it’ll b more fun for all kids!

As we saw the car, Ghadi was thrilled ...

for like 5 seconds…

No, thrilled is too much...

he was like standing there, looking at something new, but NO signs of excitement or fun or a WAW expression…

I was qeen to take a picture

He was unwilling to stand and rest…

And then it happened…

Behind the car

There was a full stand of Disney toys, with all kinds and all sizes of CARS characters, in huge boxes with remote controls!

Kids ran to the stand and Ghadi was standing there, seeing tens of Francesco and lightning Macqueen and other racing cars

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And

Yes!

He simply wanted to have them all,

To open all boxes,

Play with all the cars…

and I discovered how naiive I was

And how easily we can be driven to just commercial attraction…

Ghadi isnn’t the kind of boy who likes to manipulate cars from distance… he loves rolling cars with his own hands…

And from my experience with cars with remote control,  I knew that buying him such expensive one is meaningless, it’ll only last few minutes before he starts rolling it with his hands

As he had done in many cases before…

Besides, I felt angry at Disney because this stand shoudn’t be there at first place…

I mean many people came to this public place to show their kids the real-size car with no intention to spend money or to put their kids in front of such seducing stand! It was there just to force parents to get a car any kid wouldn’t resist!

 So,  It took me a HUGE effort to convince him not to buy one

And another huge effort to convince him to go back home…

On the way back, Y.B insisted Ghadi should come play with him in his house…

I agreed… and their laughs was filling the house in no time…

And I looked at them and saw how happy they were …without Huge cars, or the Mall frustrations, or the temptation of expensive toys… or all those “NOs” and “PLEASE HOLD MY HAND”s and “DON’T RUN AWAY”s and all other expressions I had to repeat 100 times whenever I go to the mall with ghadi!

And I realized I should be smarter in the future and do the things he would REALLY appreciate and enjoy…

 

after one hour playing at our neighbor's house,

again,

one last HUGE effort to convince him to go back home… 

***end of a combo-frustrating-Macqueen-ish-day***

The Perfect Trio!

How many times am I gonna say this:

these are my favorite trio!

I love every bit of  them

ah So many cheeks to eat! :)

Fairuz Concert, a Lebanese Manifestation, a Dream comes true!

Last year I have tried my best to get tickets for Fairuz Concert... in vain.
tickets were sold in no time, and I ended up watching photos and YouTube shots (with wet eyes..ehhh)
Fairuz, the Lebanese Diva, is again in concert this year...and I acted much cleverer than the year before.
I contacted Jamil's nephew, L.K., who happens to work just beside the ticketing box office, he contacted his friends, and we managed to get two tickets... yes, two of about 3000 tickets (per night!)

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We attended the Concert last night.

and I cannot even describe how I felt. I don't want to sound like i'm exaggerating, but I've been hearing her songs, plays and music for 35 years, and being able to attend her concert is simply... Something!

while she sang my favorite songs, like "Sabah w Masa" I was just floating in space, time and memory...

it was overwhelming and different than any other emotion I have ever experienced in my entire life...

Now away from this dreamlike world, and Back (with a slap sound) to the real life, I was disappointed by two things:

1- It was not well organized and the stage was not at all up to my expectations... I know, she needs no cinematographic background but surely she deserves a better setting and a better orchestra and even a better choral... 

2- She sang for relatively very short time...I mean, people came across the whole region to see her singing... she started late and finished on time!

on the way back home (a one hour car trip) I have even put her latest CD cuz i felt like craving for more of her voice!  

3- Lebanese audience is so embarrassing!

surely Not all of them, but at least 70% of the audience were applauding almost the whole time!

while the music was playing, while she sang, at every song...

I understand they are showing love and respect, but come'on...

PLEASE my boys: do NEVER applaud while a singer or a musician is playing music!

it is so irritating...

4-AND do never sing along when he/she is singing a romantic song!

the girl behind me accompanied her singing with a loud ugly voice almost all the time...

I was gonna shout out loud asking her to stop!

we wanted to hear Fairuz's voice!

these last two rules should be handed to people entering any Lebanese stage...

Too bad i know, 

but all this couldn't stop my excitement, my pleasure and the weird tickling I felt in my heart, sitting there, hearing Fairuz, LIVE!

Collecting Autumn leaves.. and Snails - part III

Collecting Autumn leaves.. and Snails - part II

the next day of our trip to Bekaa started with a clear blue sky and an amazing shining sun...

yes, no need to explain, you get it all in this gorgeous smile!

Collecting Autumn leaves.. and Snails - part I

Two weeks ago we did a 2 days trip to a country club at Bekaa area... 

It was stormy the night before,

and as we arrived it was already raining

Adha 2011 - Special by all means

The Adha Eid this year was a bit different...

or let me say that the Autumn season wasn't totally friendly to me and my family...

Episode one: November brought the Otitis Media inflammation in Ghadi's mid ear...

something we've already endured while Ghadi was one year old / November 2007...

couple days before Eid, he had severe pain, waking in the middle of the night crying and he started to raise the TV volume and to talk in a (really) high voice...

Evidently typical symptoms, and he had to take antibiotics and three other medications.

(this was suffocating me, i'm the kind who hate medications, pills and syrups, and hate giving them to my kids, and i struggle all the time with doctors to minimize or even avoid doses) 

this was just couple days before Eid

so I hardly found time to decorate the house (no mood for shooting though!)

Episode two: at First Eid day I had suddenly a horrible pain in my ear, turned out I was also having a severe inflammation in mid-ear...

-weird coincidence,eh-

the good part was that I really felt what was Ghadi feeling... this made me realize how painful it is.

the bad part is that I had hard time having to smile to people and exchange greetings and dress kids and take them out while I was having hard time dealing with pain killers and antibiotics!

Now the bright part of this Eid was my younger sister's visit!

yes, she came couple days just to enjoy the Eid with us.

it was SO fun and we spent great time together. Ghadi went to the airport with me.

the Airplane didn't arrive on time, so we spent about 40 minutes waiting.

the first 30 minutes went fine, while Ghadi was playing with downloaded educational games on my phone.

the next ten minutes were like real hell...

Ghadi starting his bad habit: running all over the waiting hall (which is HUGE and crowded)

refusing to stop and refusing to stand still until my sis appeared (Thank god) and we headed home!

last week Ghadi had same symptoms (again) just to find out he is having another inflammation in the same ear... 

We'll have a visit to another doctor today because during our last visit the doctor mentioned something about having to insert a tube in his eardrum if it persists...i certainly didn't like the idea at all which drove me to consult another doctor.

by the way, Sary is having severe flu since 12 days now...

It is his first flu ever...

November...You were not friendly... not at all... sniff sniff .......

Hello December.....(with a bright smile, eyes flashing with hope, and a heart full of optimism!)

Funny Facts - 01

Funny Facts about Sary:

1- He hates to play with HIS toys and adores playing with his BROTHER'S toys!

I suppose this is normal and intuitive that he is attracted to the toys he is NOT allowed to play with

so last night I spotted him reaching Ghadi's drawer

it was like finding Treasure Island

A drawer full of tiny colorful pieces....waw

I sneaked at his brother (who usually jumps and gets angry and doesn't allow him to get near his stuff)

and my big boy was peacefully sitting in his bed reading....

and the little chick knew it is the perfect chance to grasp a look at these magical drawers!

I approached and he saw me

and he looked at me with those innocent eyes (knowing that he was doing something wroooong)

"hey mom, you know it's rare for me to get that near so let me play calmly and benefit from those precious seconds...my bro will finish reading soon

and then...

may God help me!"

:)

Rhythms of my life- part 1

No this is not the title of a song, but of a really long post!

I Was thinking too much lately about this crazy life

And the change I experience everyday

And I know that it is a BLESSING from God

I can not imagine myself living a routine, of any kind!

It suffocates me and brings me crazy!

And I am not gonna write about 35 years of nonstop marathon

But I would love my kids to know more about me

About this human being hovering above them day and night

So why not starting by documenting one typical day

One normal –like –any – other – day of my life now?